right of passage...

the day finally came.  amara, at age two and a half  got her hair cut for the first time.  i'm not exactly sure why i waited so long, but i would guess amara being the second child, a girl and lack of time lead her to being almost three before scissors ever touched her long sun kissed hair.  she (amara) was beyond excited...how many times has she sat their waiting for che' and i while Miss B (we'll call her) chopped our locks. this was HER moment, HER thing and HER time to shine. as a mom it was pretty cool to see my littlest feel a sense of pride and maturity just from a haircut! passage 1 |ˈpasij|noun1 the act or process of moving through, under, over, or past something on the way from one place to another.

I guess her passage this day was from a toddler to a newly styled preschooler....

Big girl beds come with rules | Klutch Photography | Vancouver family photography

**don't panic this picture is not of a "body", well it is... just not that kind of body (the morgue kind i mean)** my first born (che') was as they say "a text book baby".  she slept well, was always happy and best of all she listened and followed the rules (at least till she hit kindergarten and thought she was all grown up).  she was the type of child that the dear lord gives you to make you think that all children you bare will turn out in "this fashion" (close to perfect).  total lies....my second child "miss amara eden" (notice the long name is being used) was for a lack of better words "not the same as che'".  some might say, "she beats to her own drummer".  she is way more stubborn, cries a ton and spoke in full sentences by the age of two (lord, i know this is your way of having fun up there but REALLY?!).  for her, rules are for bending, breaking and at times laughing at them!

now that i've briefed you on amara vs che' i'll get on with my story.

so amara FINALLY moved into her big girl bed back in november.  in our home big girl beds come with rules (no jumping! save it for the trampoline. no getting out of the bed unless you have to pee and once your in bed it's time to sleep!) seems fair, right? che' followed these rules to a T with little to no problems, but for amara i think i should have included some fine details like:

getting up at 5 am is not "morning time" and because you woke up doesn't entitle you to turn on all lights saying "where's my bubba?".

when you are done "peeing" you don't hang out in the bathroom for a half  hour with the lights on, eating tooth paste.

last but not least...toys in your bed that are large, play music or take up your entire sleeping area till you have no more room to sleep but on the floor (while keeping the lights on at 1 am) is also "not a good choice".

see picture below.

***note to self...must REVISE and post rules list***

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beauty in the most unusual places...

lunch, as always in the ferreira stoddard household, and what do i find in the most ordinary watermelon? ....beauty.  this pattern really threw me for a loop.  i was shocked at how striking it was (not to mention watermelons typically have no patterns in them).    nature is amazing!